Dear Mulan, What a sad story.. I am so sorry, you are in my prayers..NK
Nancy K
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Another death in our family
by Mulan inwhile we were in hawaii, we learned of another death in our extended family.
our niece, my brother's daughter, had a stepson who died unexpectedly on january 1. such a tragedy.
he was a well known musician, in our area, so it made the newspaper here.
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what a difference a year makes
by blindfool ini'm a month away from my 1 year anniversary with jw.com!
this time last year i was working at a job i hated, arguing with my wife all the time about the wt, and just not sure what i could do about it.
i recieved some good advice from randy waters of freeminds.org (he probably doesn't even remember it) right about this time last year.
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Nancy K
What a beautiful commentary to wake up to today...Much appreciation to you..Patience certainly is a virtue! Nancy K
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Nancy K
I understand what you're saying, but this 'new' reg., process is definitely geared to middle easterners, under the guise that ALL immigrants must register..My entire family is from Finland, we are citizens, but we are not born in the US and we are not terrorists..This is racial profiling...The US is made up of all nationalities...That's what this country is all about..Our "Bush" administration is atrocious at best..This registration process reminds my family of Nazi Germany...Peace my friend!
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Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?
by SpannerintheWorks into this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.
an absolutely appalling act.
who is responsible?
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Nancy K
I personally didn't hear this, but a few people I know have all heard the same thing, that 6 of the hijackers are alive and well, and that the true hijackers were zionists and the CIA was involved..The ID's of the hijackers were phony, as I said they are alive and well and somewhere in the the Middle East...And so it goes, we will never really 'know' the truth, and forget about the news giving us the truth..A friend of mine, Samir, from Syria, was talking to me about 9-11 and how he dosen't feel 'peace' living in the US anymore, like he does in his homeland..All becauuse of this insane 'registration' process our country is imposing on people of Middle Eastern descent..I can't wait for Bush to get 'hurled' out of office..He literally makes me ill..
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Posting reunion photo soon with my granddaughter
by Nancy K indear friends, i am relatively 'new' on this website, but i have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..i was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my dad passed away..many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support.
thru my dad's 'passing', i had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..my sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..i have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times i use a cane, i have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..my sister was telling my daughter i was on drugs, and yes i am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication i must be on for life.
so, thru my dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks i will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom i haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!!
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Dear Friends, I am relatively 'new' on this website, but I have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..I was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my Dad passed away..Many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support. Thru my Dad's 'passing', I had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..My sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..I have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times I use a cane, I have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..My sister was telling my daughter I was on drugs, and yes I am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication I must be on for life. So, thru my Dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks I will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom I haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!! I just had to let you all know...I remember I had written a post that maybe a 'miracle' would happen AND IT DID!! I will not be speaking to my sister, as you may well understand. THANK YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART! Nancy
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To All (My Dad died 12/21)Now Mom had a stroke
by Nancy K ini haven't been 'on' as my dad died 12/21 suddenly, before that i was about to do the 'lawsuit thing' to see my granddaughter, then 2 days ago my mother was rushed to the hospital and has had a mild stroke...i am totally out of it...but i do have 'good news'.. i'm going to see my granddaughter!!!!!
turns out, thru all of what's happened lately, i found out that my jw sister lied to my daughter 2 years ago, and she wasn't shunning me, she was upset about the fact my sister lied to her (causing this!
) it always 'comes back' as they say..karma, reaping what you sow, etc., ...thanks to all of you kind people..i can't wait to get back on and read the posts...you're doing a great service, to all like and unlike me!
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I haven't been 'on' as my Dad died 12/21 suddenly, before that I was about to do the 'lawsuit thing' to see my granddaughter, then 2 days ago my Mother was rushed to the hospital and has had a mild stroke...I am totally out of it...But I do have 'good news'.. I'M GOING TO SEE MY GRANDDAUGHTER!!!!! Turns out, thru all of what's happened lately, I found out that my JW sister lied to my daughter 2 years ago, and she wasn't shunning me, she was upset about the fact my sister lied to her (causing this!) It always 'comes back' as they say..Karma, reaping what you sow, etc., ...THANKS to all of you kind people..I can't wait to get back on and read the posts...You're doing a great service, to all like and unlike me! AND I WILL BE POSTING OUR REUNION PICTURE!!!! Thank you......
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One JW Lawsuit , then my Dad died a week ago...
by Nancy K inhey everybody!!
"happy new year"..this is 'nancy k'..who's dad just passed 12/21/02, and who had been 'on' about my upcoming lawsuit to see my granddaughter..i have updates, and will be back 'on' soon..my heartfelt thanks to you all!
nancy k......and tom(my husband) of course!!!
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Hey Everybody!! "Happy New Year"..This is 'Nancy K'..who's Dad just passed 12/21/02, and who had been 'on' about my upcoming lawsuit to see my Granddaughter..I have updates, and will be back 'on' soon..MY HEARTFELT THANKS TO YOU ALL! Nancy K......and Tom(my husband) of course!!!!
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JW causing more grief over my Dad's death Sat.
by Nancy K in.
my jw sister is causing problems with my dad's death this past saturday..she is down in florida, where my parents live, went there on a pleasure trip to begin with, then our dad passed (as i wrote) unexpectedly..now, she is pressuring my mom to have a viewing and a 'talk' by some jw's and my mom does not want this..my sister is one of those 'double life' jw's..she says unkind things about me behind my back, re: my illness(as my mom has told me), but she has been 'engaged' for 4 yrs.to a 'worldly guy' and we all know they sleep together, etc.,then she turns around and acts like she's miss spirituality..for her to do what she's doing now, well i don't know what to do..i want my mom and dad's wishes to be #1, and for her to try and pressure my mom into a service, also without giving me a chance to be there, well i'm not feeling too good at this point..thank you all so much for your replies, e-mails and love..don't know what i would do without you guys.
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Dear Sentinel, Thanks for sharing your experience...I believe that what is bothering me is that I don't normally talk to my sister too much, because she preaches one way of life and then lives a different one..So, in the respect dept., I am lacking towards her..Then with my husband, pets, house, children & illness, I have alot to keep me busy..My illness takes up the biggest chunk of my life, so I try to keep things 'simple'..I was originally planning to fly down with my son (and my husband would follow shortly thereafter), to see my Mom, because she will be getting my Dad's ashes and bringing them home..Then she wants to bring them to New Jersey, to bury them in a plot they have, where my 19 year old brother was buried in 1975, so I wasn't planning on rushing right down there..I thought after my sister leaves, I would go down, so she wouldn't be alone, yet..I also have invited her to come stay with us for how ever long she wants to, as we have a big house. It was my sister's idea to have a 'rush' service before she goes home, that got us upset..My Mom says my Dad didn't want this, SHE doesn't want a 'viewing' as my sister put it, because my Dad looked bad when she saw him that last time..The last thing I want to do is cause my Mom any more stress..If my sister pressures my Mom into this, there's not alot I can do from being in a different state...I will still go and see my Mom and she is always welcome to come to our home, for one night or for the rest of her life, we love her..If I wasn't ill myself, I'd be able to deal with this alot better, I'd have more strength, physical and emotional, but for now I'll just do the best I can to comfort my Mom..My Dad is at peace and that is what is important, that and looking out for my Mom. I am not a 'fighter', I'll stand up for what I believe to be true and just, but I try to keep the peace in my life and those I love..Again, Thank You for your thoughts and prayers..All my best to you and yours, NK
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JW causing more grief over my Dad's death Sat.
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my jw sister is causing problems with my dad's death this past saturday..she is down in florida, where my parents live, went there on a pleasure trip to begin with, then our dad passed (as i wrote) unexpectedly..now, she is pressuring my mom to have a viewing and a 'talk' by some jw's and my mom does not want this..my sister is one of those 'double life' jw's..she says unkind things about me behind my back, re: my illness(as my mom has told me), but she has been 'engaged' for 4 yrs.to a 'worldly guy' and we all know they sleep together, etc.,then she turns around and acts like she's miss spirituality..for her to do what she's doing now, well i don't know what to do..i want my mom and dad's wishes to be #1, and for her to try and pressure my mom into a service, also without giving me a chance to be there, well i'm not feeling too good at this point..thank you all so much for your replies, e-mails and love..don't know what i would do without you guys.
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Hello Friends, Please accept my thanks for your posts...They have been VERY helpful...I am able to fly down to Florida, as my son has offered to go with me and my husband would come down as soon as he can (he has a client that needs his help in court)..I have an unusual set of circumstances, and believe me, the last thing I want is for my Mom to be under more stress..I, too, have a serious illness and this added JW stress is not good; 3 years ago my Mom came up north to help take care of me, as I was on a very potent 'chemo cocktail' and almost didn't survive..She and I are very close. When she called me about the JW issue...( the past few days have been a blur, we've been on the phone so much..) As I said, she called me, after my sister started about the service thing..My father didn't leave any wishes, written or verbal regarding the JW service..He wanted to be cremated and have his ashes buried with my brother's in NJ..My Mom called me for support, as she has been upset with my sister for saying unkind things about me (behind my back), things regarding my illness..You see, I have developed a type of neuropathy which makes me use a cane at times and affects my speech, equilibrium and hearing. She kept telling people I was on drugs, etc., and I didn't even know, until she said it to my Mom and Dad, and then they told me. Well, I was upset and my husband was furious..But I can't be under all this stress either, it makes me feel sicker, so I just decided to try and focus on the positive things in my life..My husband, my younger daughter Em, and my son Doug, as well as our little group of pets..My doctor has told me, "surround yourself with people that love you and the h*ll with all the rest"..He's right..This website has been a blessing to me also, even though I am 'new'..The first day I went 'on' I got such wonderful support, I was flipping out!! All of you have been tremendously helpful and kind..So, anyway, things in my corner of the world are 'quite the mess' right now, but I feel peace starting to flow into my soul...I feel that all of you, my husband, son, etc., have helped me and I am so grateful..I was thinking how tough this 'time of year' is on alot of people and esp., THIS year, after 9-11..So many people grieving...I suffered the loss of my beloved Dad, but I have alot to be thankful for..Our one friend saw people jumping from the World Trade Ctr., that day, and has been in heavy-duty therapy..You see, we live very close to the WTC..So, yes, I have a great deal to be thankful for...Well, I will end this post here for now..Much love to all of you and may peace be with you and your loved ones, NK...
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JW causing more grief over my Dad's death Sat.
by Nancy K in.
my jw sister is causing problems with my dad's death this past saturday..she is down in florida, where my parents live, went there on a pleasure trip to begin with, then our dad passed (as i wrote) unexpectedly..now, she is pressuring my mom to have a viewing and a 'talk' by some jw's and my mom does not want this..my sister is one of those 'double life' jw's..she says unkind things about me behind my back, re: my illness(as my mom has told me), but she has been 'engaged' for 4 yrs.to a 'worldly guy' and we all know they sleep together, etc.,then she turns around and acts like she's miss spirituality..for her to do what she's doing now, well i don't know what to do..i want my mom and dad's wishes to be #1, and for her to try and pressure my mom into a service, also without giving me a chance to be there, well i'm not feeling too good at this point..thank you all so much for your replies, e-mails and love..don't know what i would do without you guys.
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Thank you also, Francois, very, very much...NK